I was asking because the first few things that came to mind as to why your calcium was decreasing would be an increase in growth, really high magnesium (which causes it to precipitate out), or dilution. For folks to get an idea on why your toadstool is looking bad it's helpful to know if your nutrients are low, and in addition to water quality, your lighting may come into play as well.
I'm not going to claim to know the answer to give you guidance, there are people on here that are much more knowledgeable and experienced than I am, but something is out of whack if your calcium is dropping and your Alk is at 6. Personally, I would start with some water changes and begin to work to slowly get your parameters in line with the levels Randal Holmes-Farley recommends, especially for Alk, Calc, Mag, Nitrates, and Phosphorus. Nitrates can be a little higher up to 5 ppm, especially in a softie or LPS reef tank. For alk and calcium look into BRS two part dosing or kalkwasser. It's a lot cheaper than the supplements the fish store will recommend. Hopefully, you'll get some input from some of our more experienced members as well.