Oh I appreciate that.
As much as it sounds as though I do want a dobie, I also don't want to clean up land mines. I don't even like to mow the grass.
With that said, this is definitely why I'm reaching out to see what others like, have had experiences with, what they wouldn't do again etc..
I had a friend with a wonderful blue heeler, I would never realized that he was probably just lucky that his was ok with being a house dog. He took the dog all over, but it did not have any place to roam or "work". That was a reason why heelers were on my list. Same goes for the catahoula and border collies. Not having a place for them to run and work, I'll cross them off my list. And it's not that I wouldn't be willing, it's just why take the chance if it's unnecessary.
The other half has suddenly jumped on the Boston Terrier band wagon after doing more research. Sounds like a right sized dog, smooth short fur, light on the food bill, smaller dogs tend to be cheaper at the vet, obnoxious like it's possible future owners, cats could easily defend themselves, might be able to climb a chain link fence but less likely to just jump over it, shouldn't frighten or "put off" guests, and a few other reasons.
We certainly are not set on one, and we may still not ever get a dog. We have been "looking" for a dog now for at least 6 years. Then again I want a serval cat but I don't want a zoo. Been down that road before. So now I would rather put a lot of planning into picking the right one for our home.