Well, after about 3 days in the tupperware container the nem finally crawled out and spent 3 or 4 days on the glass under the return nozzle. It finally moved and seems to have found a spot it likes. It spent 3 days there, moved yesterday and moved back to the same spot today. Over the last week I'd noticed my clown taking more interest in the nem. He'd swim by, stop and look and swim off. After a couple of days he started getting closer and would stick his head in between the tentacles. Well, I'm sitting playing a video game today and glance over and at first I thought the nem had caught something and was trying to eat it. I was wrong. Looks like the clown has decided he likes the nem and is hosting now. He'll wriggle around for 5 or 10 seconds and swim away. Wait a few minutes and go back and do it again! I had hoped this would happen but wasn't holding my breath!