my male bangaii turned on the female and she is looking rough. Not sure why, nothing has changed in a while. He was wild caught I am pretty sure, and she wasnt. He has always been a little wierd, but the female is my favorite fish. Always cool and tame. I just tore down half my tank trying to catch one of them but failed. Used a flashlight after dark, but I have a lot of stuff in there. Any suggestions on catching them, or possibly a way to chill him out?